In today’s world, we often hear people searching for their soulmate, perfect match, or twin flame.

Our society has unconsciously trained us to look for love outside of ourselves.

What if you’ve been looking for love in all the wrong places?!

The truth is, you’ll never find the love you seek if you’re constantly looking outside of yourself.

By neglecting ourselves, we’re unconsciously sending the signal that it’s okay for others to neglect us too… which is probably not the kind of behavior we want to invite into our lives!

February 14th is well known around the world as Valentine’s Day. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, it may or may not be your favorite day of the year.

But what if you shifted your focus from seeking love externally, and turned inwards?

When we learn to love ourselves first, practice self-love and self-care, we empower ourselves to manifest the kind of love we truly desire.

What kind of lover do you want to attract? How would you like to improve your current relationships?

Set your intention to be more mindful of how you treat yourself. Do more of the things you love to do that make you happy on the inside.

Pamper yourself the way you want someone else to pamper you… whether that’s treating yourself to a massage, spa day, or getaway vacation.

Once you begin fulfilling yourself, then fulfilling relationships (whether romantic or platonic) will begin to find their way to you.

Thanks to the Law of Attraction, like attracts like… so BE the love you seek.

Happy LOVE YOURSELF month! 😉

[Republished with permission from DivineJ9.com]