On Authentic Relationships of LOVE re: the BEginning stages…..

It IS important to keep in mind that the “Namaste LOVE” we feel for another upon first meeting IS, albeit Authentic, NOT WHOLEistic.

To LOVE someONE Authentically and WHOLEistically IS to LOVE them when they are NOT BEing, seeing or showing their own “Namaste LOVE”…..

In other words, when we first meet, we tend to BE on our “Best BEhaviour”, emulating our “Namaste” Divine BEing, the “I in ME” we ALL love ourselves to BE….we all are authentically.

HOWEVER….as we grow in comfort with another, we also BEgin to share those aspects of the “I in ME” we don’t necessarily LOVE so readily….those aspects that are NOT emulating the “Namaste LOVE” of our selves and thus DO we start to see in one another the fear that exists therein.

Authentically LOVing someone, an Authentic Relationship of “Namaste” or Agape LOVE [seeing the divine in the other that is the divine in you…….unconditional, detached, objective, humbled, honoured, greatfull love] IS LOVing that person even when their “monster” IS ALL that YOU can see……

And as indicated, we don’t tend to “show”//share that little “monster” of fear we ALL have withIN us until we are more comfortable with each other.

Thus……’tis important to keep in mind when in the BEginning of a relationship, when we are swooning, and “over the moon in love” what it IS we are actually feeling so that we may maintain a detached objectivity with respect thereto and ALLOW for Authentic WHOLEistic LOVing to develop…….as opposed to getting caught up in emotions that we are giving MORE credit and meaning to than actually exist within us.

This of course will off-set an enormity of pain and suffering many go through when discovering that the individual whom they thought they loved so deeply and dearly is NOT exactly whom they first appeared to BE.

The ‘morale’ of the story…….

TAKE YOUR TIME………
In the BEginning of any relationship, [and pretty much all the time ;D] ALLOW SPACE between YOUrself and the EMOTIONS you are feeling so that you are NOT motioning based on feeling alone [e-motion] but thinking with your heart and FEELing with your MIND…….

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